Women and coldness in married life
Common sexual problems among women are coldness and coldness of relationships, which is considered a hindrance in married life.
Libido disorder in women is more complicated than in men, but many of them can be solved easily and often without medical interventions and simply by giving information. Sexual desire in women is mostly rooted in biological and psychological factors. When a woman comes to the clinic with the problem of decreased sexual desire, in addition to all physical aspects, psychological, biological, social, cultural, economic, mindset, beliefs and perspectives should be considered. should also pay attention to marital relations. But what are these biological and psychological factors? In the following, you will get the answer to this and similar questions.
In general, women who suffer from hormonal disorders, suffer from chronic pain for any reason, have diabetes or mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety, or undergo chemotherapy or radiation therapy due to malignant diseases. are cardiovascular, take certain drugs, have an unpleasant experience with their spouse, do not have a good emotional relationship with their spouse or have been sexually abused, have low self-confidence, for example, they think their social level is too low It is more than the wife, they have a bad mental image of their body and finally, they are busy people, trapped and under pressure from social and family point of view.
Diagnosing sexual dysfunction in women is a bit difficult
Libido disorders in women are not easily diagnosed because other disorders such as disorders in reaching orgasm, disorders in arousal and satisfaction, and feeling pain during intercourse, vaginal dryness, and even not having an emotional relationship with a spouse may cause secondary sexual disorders. are considered Secondary disorder is a disorder that did not exist from the beginning and appeared later, but in primary sexual desire disorder, the patient has had this problem since the beginning of the first marital relationship.
There are 2 types of libido reduction. About one-third of women who are in a relationship have a decrease in libido. When a woman always has a decrease in libido, the decrease in libido is general. In the second type, the woman does not really have a decrease in sexual desire, but due to not loving her husband (such as forced marriage), she experiences a decrease in sexual desire in the face of him. This type of decrease is situational and psychological. The decrease in sexual desire is divided into 3 types in terms of intensity. If the decrease in sexual desire is mild, there will not be much disruption in the marital relationship and the spouse will not usually be informed. Women who have this problem on average, often establish marital relations as a duty and without inner satisfaction, but in severe cases, the woman is not willing to establish relations at all, and this action may cause the disintegration of married life.
Menopause and loss of libido
In order to create sexual desire in a woman, hormonal, neuromuscular, vascular and finally psychological systems must work in harmony. Disturbance in this pathway causes sexual desire disorder. The most common cause of decreased sex drive is menopause because sex drive has a very close relationship with the level of female hormones and even male hormones because all women have some male hormones in their bodies. In women whose ovaries are removed due to disease, the secretion of both hormones is stopped, but in the body of women with natural menopause, some male hormone remains, but the secretion of two hormones decreases. Depression and MS are two other common causes after menopause that bring patients to the doctor because of decreased libido.
First diagnose the cause, then root treatment
Women who come with the complaint of decreased sexual desire are in three age groups. Young women, perimenopausal women and postmenopausal women. To investigate the cause of decreased sexual desire, first these 3 factors are taken into consideration. Every patient should be examined for all the mentioned causes, because in many cases the patient does not have a decrease in sexual desire at all, and another factor caused this problem to arise. However, the obvious decrease in libido in women is an important problem and should be treated. It is strongly recommended that women take the decrease in sexual desire seriously and try to fix it. Women who have separated from their husbands due to decreased libido should not remarry unless their problem is resolved. Successful treatment depends on the correct diagnosis of the type of disorder and its cause.
What do doctors call cold-tempered men?
Alopecia is a slang term used by people to refer to men or women who have low or no libido. Cold-tempered or decreased sexual desire has a scientific concept and you can’t easily say cold-tempered to anyone. A proper biography should be taken from the person to determine what he means by using this word. If a man who is more than 20 years old gets married and the interval between his two marriages is 10 days or more, he is called cold-tempered.
Sexual desire has a direct relationship with the age of humans, and this desire decreases with age in both sexes, but the intensity of the decrease is different. There is no problem if there is a relative proportion in the needs and sexual desires of both people. The problem is when one of the parties wants to have marital relations every day and the other every month! This is where the issue of cold-temperedness or loss of libido comes up. There are 2 types of cold-temperament: the first one, in which a man wants to have long-distance marital relations from the very first days after marriage, and the secondary cold-temperament. In this type of man, he did not have such a problem from the beginning, and later he suffered a decrease in libido. Decreased libido may be mild, moderate, or severe. In severe cases, a man may not want to have a relationship for months or even at all. Coldness in men is revealed much earlier. While in women, especially in mild stages, it usually remains hidden.
Factors such as inappropriate jobs, too much mental busyness, life problems, depression and anxiety, and disturbance in the emotional relationship with the wife are some of the problems that harm a man’s psyche and can cause a decrease in his sexual desire.
One of the important things that affect libido is the reduction of male hormones. The male hormone gradually decreases in old age and subsequently the sexual desire decreases, but sometimes in young or middle-aged people, the process of decreasing this hormone is fast and causes problems for men. Men who have a gradual decrease in libido, it is better to have their hormone levels measured in a laboratory.
Another thing that reduces men’s libido is the use of psychoactive drugs. These drugs should only be prescribed by a doctor. If the patients become cold-tempered after taking the medicine, they should inform the doctor about it and should never arbitrarily stop the medicine or change its dosage.
22 February 2013 20:27
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