In this section of Dr. Salam’s site, we will answer a general question of girls and boys about being a virgin or a virgin. question : How do I know I’m still a virgin? And about my gentlemen, how do I know my favorite girl is a virgin? Join us to find out the answer to this question.
Examination of virginity by the person himself
Due to their psychological characteristics, women do not want to see a doctor to examine their hymen, and this in many cases causes depression and emotional distress in them. The hymen is in a way that the person alone can not examine and in Causes of clumsy surgery can damage the hymen. It is recommended that you see your midwife and gynecologist for a hymen examination. The midwife should do it. To examine the hymen, you should open the outer lips of the vulva completely with your thumb and forefinger, and examine the hymen with a mirror. From the middle fingers and index finger of one hand and the thumb and index finger of the other hand, you open the lips of the vulva completely and your friend uses a flashlight to shine light into the mirror so that the light is reflected into the vagina.
(We will not be aware of the consequences of this personal examination by the individuals themselves)
Given that most girls in society have a friendly relationship with the opposite sex and most of these emotional sexual relationships lead to sex. On the advice of friends and traitorous advisers, girls often try to restore their virginity in order to deceive the groom. What does she do? Basically, a girl who has lost her virginity before marriage and in this case tries to deceive her husband is no longer afraid to touch anything in her life and is waiting for the slightest opportunity in life to easily Infidelity. Given that it is often not possible to talk about a girl’s virginity test before marriage, and families are sensitive to this issue, it is not possible to rely on illusions and fantasies and how a person behaves in society ( Which is not clear whether it is real or dramatic behavior) judged this important issue, so we need methods to diagnose the girl’s virginity by the person himself.
It is usually necessary to suspect a girl who comments easily about sex. Also, a person who experiences sex for the first time usually does not accept to take off his clothes easily and without shame, and this is difficult for him. He does not kiss, and when his clothes are taken out of tension, he feels an involuntary sense of shame and embarrassment from his face.
Now, we will give a general description about this veil (virginity or virginity).
The hymen is a curtain that is located in the opening of the vagina in the lower part of the atrium. The vagina sticks. The shape of the middle hole as well as the consistency – growth and thickness determine the type of curtain that is important in forensics. The hymen tissue is mainly composed of elastic connective tissue and collagen, and both its inner and outer surfaces are covered by the flat squamous epithelium. There are no glandular or muscular elements in the hymen and there are not many nerve fibers.
2. Diagnosis of hymen rupture:
1- The state of the vulva blades
The fins around the vagina are usually close together in girls, so that they are not clearly visible at first glance, while in women these fins are clearly visible.
2- The shape of the vagina
If the vagina has a shape of seven, it can be a sign of rupture of the membrane with the penetration of the penis, because due to the pressure on the wall, its shape changes from round to seven.
Rupture of the septum, whether during intimate penetration or the above factors, may be associated with damage to other parts of the vulva (around the vagina, urethra, shell between the vagina and the vagina).
3- Walls inside the vulva (cervix)
The wall of the cervix is made up of protruding membranes, which, due to constant proximity, these protrusions are broken down and destroyed, so that penetration is done easily and with less pressure. You found the comfort of the vagina and were able to penetrate easily. The girl must have had sex before.
4. If you were able to insert the first of the two index fingers and the middle finger of the hand into the vagina, that woman must have had sex before.
In the case of girls who play with movies, they say that they have been raped. It is easy to tell the truth.
Because girls who lose their virginity as a result of rape suffer from urinary tract injuries and intrauterine ulcers (fibrons) that are easily recognizable. That is, when the membrane is destroyed in several stages, either severely or as a result of rape, urinary tract ulcers and intrauterine ulcers (fibrons) occur.
In general we can say:
Signs of being with butter
1- The hymen is expandable and has a hole without rupture
2- Atrium, vagina and vaginal opening
3- The vaginal mucosa is thick and wrinkled and has overlapping folds
The folds of sleep are usually facing the opening of the vagina.
5- Narrow vaginal canal (narrow with corrugated walls) and its depth is not visible.
6- Examination with a finger is not possible and due to insistence on examination, there is a possibility of mucosal injury.
7- The vaginal canal is short due to the folds of the vagina lying on top of each other.
If the hymen is of elastic type – the penetration operation is done without tearing the hymen and the health of these hymens does not deny the penetration, ie in maidens, the irreversible veils are circular, crescent-shaped, double-leafed, concave and toothed. … It has a regular middle hole and perfectly smooth edges and the vaginal mucosa is lying on top of each other with folds that sleep towards the opening of the vagina and the vaginal canal is very narrow.
It should be noted that physically, the absence of rupture of the hymen is not a principle for the diagnosis of virginity (virginity), and in these cases, the condition of the vagina is proven to be intrusive. Despite not seeing a rupture in the hymen due to the condition of the vagina and mucosa
Signs of interference:
1- The hymen is loose and dilated and has a hole without rupture or looseness of the hymen and its middle hole dilates and due to the looseness of the hymen and the dilation of its middle hole – two fingers easily enter the vagina and by touching the vaginal wall – relative smoothing of the folds The vagina feels good.
2- The atrium of the vulva and the wide opening of the vagina means the dilation of the atrium of the vulva is the distance between the two superficial parts of the lips of the vulva to the hymen, which is usually 2.5-4 cm long. Due to frequent intercourse, the lips of the vulva are separated and the atrium dilates.
3- The vaginal mucosa is relatively thick and the folds are slightly smoother and have separated folds
4- The sleep of the folds is irregular and not to one side.
5- The vaginal canal is open and usually visible up to two thirds of it, ie the dilation of the vaginal canal due to the relative flattening of the vaginal folds – so that the vaginal canal is usually fully visible up to about two thirds of its length. The open folds of the vagina are well visible and the sleep of the folds, unlike the maidens, is not all to one side, that is, towards the opening of the vagina, and it is irregularly to and fro.
6- It can be examined with a finger and even opening it with fine speculum is possible and the mucosa is not damaged.
7- Due to the opening of the vaginal folds, the vaginal canal is long.
The important point is the difference between virgin blood and menstrual blood or blood that comes out of the repair membrane. Bleeding usually occurs more or less severely after the hymen is torn. We do not have a minimum for bleeding in this case, it may be one or two drops or maybe more, but the maximum will be the size of a diaper soaked, and what is certain is that this bleeding should not continue. It is appropriate if someone tries to repair the virginity because it is no longer possible to use the natural blood caused by the rupture of the virginity, usually there will be more bleeding than normal or there will be no bleeding at all. The blood of the hymen usually clots quickly and differs from the blood of other parts of the body in that it contains amounts of vaginal cells.
There is also a difference between menstrual blood and hymen because menstrual blood has less fibrinogen, so it clots later and there are more vaginal cells in it, while blood from the hymen clots faster and contains small amounts of vaginal cells. Is.
Cause of rupture of virginity
Because in the first intercourse, the hymen (if any), because it has a smaller diameter than the diameter of the penis, prevents the penis from entering to some extent, but it ruptures with more pressure. This rupture, like other ruptures in the body, causes pain, burning, and bleeding. So if you naturally encounter a small vaginal width during the first intercourse with an obstacle that does not allow the penis to penetrate easily, the person has not had vaginal penetration. I think if you have a little information in this field, you will easily feel the difference between the width caused by masturbation by the finger and the width created by the penis.
Recognize the timing of virginity rupture
Usually up to 2 weeks after the rupture of the hymen, the exact date can be guessed from the physical signs, and a specialist doctor or midwife can guess the date of the rupture for up to 1 month, and after 1 month, the time of the rupture of the hymen is not known at all. In terms of appearance, if the hymen is not repaired, the edges of the new rupture in the hymen are usually scarred and red, and traces of blood clots can be seen in it. After about a week, the cut edges are covered with mucus similar to the hymen. And after about two weeks, the edges of the wound are relatively removed. If the hymen is repaired, the above steps will not be performed. Another important point is that the edges of the rupture, because they are free and not connected to each other, will never be welded together, and if the two pieces of the rupture are sewn together and the curtain is repaired, The repair will be marked by a small bright raised scar.
Recently, some girls have sex from the anus or back to maintain their virginity.
Symptoms of anal sex:
If repeated, penetration symptoms can be seen. It should be noted that if the frequency of penetration is less than 2-3 cases, symptoms should not be expected. Wrinkles, thickening of the skin around the anus that extends inward and continues to the mucosal skin area, and occasionally the scaly area passes. If it is a professional object, the thickening of the skin extends even into the rectum. And previously improved fissures are seen as faint lines at the creases. In professional objects, the anus becomes funnel-shaped, as if the anus has been pulled inward. One of the important points is that the relaxation of the anal sphincter should never be forgotten. In professionals and in anal observation, most of the time, no symptoms are observed unless we use a private maneuver. When a person is in the examination position, place the big toes a short distance from the anus and grab the buttocks with the rest of the fingers and pull them to the sides so that the creases of the anus are clearly visible. Then deliberately push the sphincter to gather the person, and if you draw his thoughts to another point, the voluntary movement of the sphincter disappears and its state becomes clear.
Signs of ruptured sphincter folds may be observed, which should be noted. Relaxation of the anal sphincter is a sign of frequent penetration.
The position of the anal canal should also be considered. Anal penetration may change the position of the anal canal – cause hemorrhoids and hemorrhoids – small fleshy appendages around the anal canal – small warts – protrusion of part of the tissue from the anus – slight opening of the canal Anal and… be.