Until half a century ago, there was very little information about orgasm and the peak of sexual pleasure in women, and many people believed that women do not have an orgasm at all, and only men enjoy it in a relationship. But little by little, with the progress of science and the research of researchers, a lot of information was collected in this regard.
Creating sexual excitement in men and women according to Johnson and Masters research is divided into four parts:
1- Stimulation stage
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2- Peak stage
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3- Stage of satisfaction
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4- Return stage
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Arousal stage
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The stimulation phase also occurs as a result of psychological stimulation. For example, eye color, hair style, appearance, kiss, caress or directly touching the genitals, a sound, a gentle and romantic visual or physical movement.
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In America, a study was conducted according to which 58% of women are stimulated by a man’s gaze. This figure is 72% for men. 12% of women and 54% of men are aroused by looking at the nude image of the opposite sex. For this reason, naked women are used in advertisements.
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A quarter of women and a third of men are aroused by seeing sex. But women and men are equally stimulated by watching movies and books.
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The result is that the woman’s reaction is slow, slow. Seeing a sexy photo shocks a woman rather than arousing her. But the book or the movie will stimulate him slowly, slowly.
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Just as sexual dreams lead to sexual desire in men, so do they in women. Sexual desire probably depends as much on a person’s educational background as physiological arousal.
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Sexual desire increases in proportion to the level of sex hormones. Libido changes during the menstrual cycle and reaches its maximum near the time of ovulation. Try to review your best sexual memory before each sex to be more prepared for sex.
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When a woman is sexually stimulated, the blood circulation in the skin intensifies, certain parts of the skin become red, the breasts become large and their tips stand out, the glands that are under the small lips of the penis secrete a slimy fluid to They are called “genital”.
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The penis is the main cause of lubrication during sex. This lubrication, in turn, is necessary to provide a pleasurable rubbing sensation instead of an uncomfortable sensation that may result from a dry vagina. A rubbing sensation creates the best sensation for producing the right reflexes that lead to peak sexual pleasure.
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Ten to thirty seconds after stimulation, a slimy substance is secreted in the vagina, and due to the secretion of the slimy substance, the vagina becomes moist. This action is called Lubrication.
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In the stimulation phase:
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1) Muscle contraction intensifies. The muscles of the genital and pelvic organs contract involuntarily.
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2) It causes a large amount of blood to accumulate in the pelvis and genitals. Blood pressure increases, heart rate increases and breathing increases. In fact, it interferes with the sexual stimulation of the whole body.
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3) The genitals are red and the vagina is enlarged.
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peak stage
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Stimulation phase changes remain. Parasympathetic nerves dilate the arteries of the vaginal tissue and narrow its veins, causing rapid accumulation of blood so that the entrance to the vagina is narrowed.
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Due to the increase in blood, the vagina shrinks to half and wraps around the penis. This helps to establish sufficient sexual stimulation in men and increases stimulation.
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The clitoris is sensitive to sexual sensations. The clitoris is not enlarged, but is stretched around the pubic bone and pushed back, so that it becomes difficult to touch it directly.
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Depending on the mental or physical stimulation, this phase can last more or less, or it can reach a higher stage, which is sexual satisfaction, or it can gradually decrease and end.
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Stage of sexual satisfaction
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This stage is very short compared to the stimulation and climax stages and takes place in a few seconds. In a simple satisfaction 3 to 5 and in a more intense satisfaction 8 to 12 muscle contractions can be done.
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Pleasure consists of rhythmic muscle contraction outside the vagina against the venous tissues around the vagina and the anterior tissues of the labia minora. In fact, rhythmic contraction of different muscles produces orgasm. In other words, during orgasm, the muscles of the perineum (the area between the vagina and the anus) of the woman contract synchronously. Coordination of muscle tension causes pressure and blood flow in the veins and causes satisfaction.
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“When the local sexual stimulation reaches its peak intensity and especially when the local feelings are strengthened by suitable psychological signals from the brain, reflexes occur that cause the peak of sexual pleasure or orgasm.”
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Women in full stimulation can satisfy themselves several times in a row. Through vaginal intercourse, this action can be 6 times or more. If the clitoris is directly stimulated and the woman directs it, women can be satisfied up to 50 times in one hour.
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There is no difference between sexual satisfaction through the vagina and satisfaction through the clitoris. According to Masters and Johnson, the existence of sexual satisfaction remains independent of the location of the stimulation that caused it.
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Freud believed that if the stimulation of the clitoris is transferred to the vagina, the woman has reached the evolution of her femininity. Today these theories have been rejected, today we talk about vaginal satisfaction, satisfaction through the clitoris, or through dreams. Physiologically, these are all similar.
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Return stage
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In the return phase, the entire excitation returns to the initial state. Blood pressure, heart rate and breathing return to the original state, muscles expand again. The clitoris returns to its previous state. Speed of return depends on satisfaction.
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If the woman is satisfied, within a few minutes everything will return to the first state. Otherwise, the blood stays in the vagina for a long time and can cause an unpleasant feeling that lasts up to an hour. Of course, this state is not a form that a person consciously tries to create.
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The whole receiving system is limited in the return phase. In a few minutes, the woman becomes lethargic and faints.
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In 1966, two scientists, Johnson and Masters, proved that blood coagulation after sexual climax returns to its original state within a few minutes, otherwise it takes hours to return to its original state. One third of women masturbate in order to return to the first state of sexual stiffness, which is the result of making love.
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A man is generally satisfied a little earlier. A woman’s sexual satisfaction is longer than a man’s. A woman can reach another climax immediately after satisfaction, while men generally respond to fresh stimulation after a period of time has passed.
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A woman’s ability to react sexually is neither quantitatively nor qualitatively weaker than a man’s. The fact that a woman is shy and modest in sexual behavior does not come back to the issue of her physiology. The opinion that a woman has lower sexual sensitivity than a man in terms of ability is actually due to the prejudice of the patriarchal society.
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Johnson and Masters concluded that there is no reason to abstain from sexual intercourse during pregnancy and postpartum after wound healing.
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Even between 3 and 6 months, many women increase their sexual desire and experience more intense sexual satisfaction. Sexual desire decreases in the last trimester of pregnancy. If there is no possibility of miscarriage, a woman can have sexual intercourse up to a few weeks before conception.
