Life problems caused by women’s sexual reluctance and coldness
Why do some women suffer from coldness and sexual reluctance? What factors affect this and what effect does it have on their lives and how can it be overcome? What role can men play in this field?
Sexual reluctance in women is one of the problems that some couples usually face. In such a situation, the man complains that his wife has been cold for some time, and this coldness and reluctance has reduced the emotional relationships and intimacy in their life together. This problem can have irreparable consequences in cohabitation and may even lead to violence and separation between couples.
“Sexual reluctance in women is one of the problems that some couples usually face, and if this problem is not taken seriously, it can have irreparable consequences in their life together,” said Dr. Fatemeh Azartash, a family counselor and university lecturer. “They may leave and may even lead to violence and separation between couples.”
He added: “Of course, if we can say that a woman has sexual desire disorder that in 75 to 100 percent of cases for at least six months continuously experiences such as not wanting to start sexual activity, lack of sexual fantasies and lust and lack of arousal “And he has experienced arousal by seeing, hearing, touching and smelling.”
“The factors that cause anorexia nervosa and colds in women can be divided into five categories, the first of which may be related to the sexual partner,” the family counselor pointed to the factors contributing to the occurrence of sexual reluctance in women.
“If a man has sexual health problems such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or mental disorders that do not have the ability and skills to have sex, he may gradually enter into such a relationship because the woman “She does not experience orgasm and is reluctant to have sex.”
“Even when couples do not have an intimate relationship with each other, or suffer from verbal, visual and tactile weakness or inconsistency in sexual desire and family conflicts and marital disputes, or have feelings of anger from the spouse and are involved in power in their relationships,” he said. They do not know enough about sexual skills and physiological differences between men and women; As the man always ejaculates before the woman and the woman does not experience orgasm frequently during sexual intercourse, it is natural for the woman to become obsessed with the relationship over time. “Such issues are the second leading cause of sexual reluctance in women in the group of communication factors.”
“The third cause of women’s colds is factors related to personal injuries,” Azartash said. Negative perception of body image plays an important role in the formation of this disorder. Usually women are more involved in this idea than men and think that they do not have the necessary physical attractiveness for their husbands. “In addition, a history of emotional or sexual abuse, mental illness such as depression and anxiety, fear of pregnancy or hearing a voice during sexual intercourse are other factors that cause sexual reluctance in women.”
Emphasizing that cultural and educational factors are not ineffective in causing such a disorder, the university lecturer continued: “Sometimes women’s negative attitude towards sexual issues leads them to consider sexual activity as a sin and shame, and shame prevents shyness. Express their wishes and needs.
Such a negative attitude towards sexual issues is a great barrier to physical stimulation and even self-expression in women, and makes one even think of sexual thinking and fantasizing as sinful. “But because the most important sexual organ is the brain and plays an important role in sexual behavior, the less sexual issues are thought about and hindered from imagining, the less desire there is for a person to have a relationship.”
According to this family counselor, the fifth factor influencing women’s sexual reluctance is physiological factors. Low testosterone levels, diseases such as malnutrition, thyroid, diabetes, narrowing of the arteries, as well as the use of birth control pills, antidepressants, antihypertensives and lactation can be effective factors in causing sexual dysfunction in women.
Finally, Azartash warned that whatever the causes of sexual reluctance in women need to be investigated and treated in a timely manner, he said: “If a couple feels that they have reluctant disorder, it is better to take it seriously. The occurrence of this disorder can lead to a decrease in emotional relationships and intimacy in cohabitation and leave irreparable consequences in cohabitation and may even lead to violence and separation between couples. Therefore, refer to the relevant specialist as soon as possible so that the necessary treatment measures can be taken according to the effective causes of these disorders.
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