Men also have the ability to reach orgasm several times in a sexual relationship. It is enough to get acquainted with its techniques. Unfortunately, most people are not familiar enough with these techniques, and this is the reason why they cannot enjoy a sexual relationship as they should. Most men in a sexual relationship are looking for ejaculation rather than making love, which is completely wrong.
Multiple orgasms happen one after the other, without the person losing their sexual arousal during them. Women can easily have multiple orgasms but few men know that with proper training they too can orgasm multiple times during sex just like women. For women, multiple orgasms mean that they regain sexual arousal shortly after their first orgasm, which usually happens immediately or after a few minutes. When a woman reaches orgasm several times in a sexual relationship, her orgasm will be multiple.
Many men mistakenly think that they have had a multiple orgasm when they can be stimulated again after ejaculation and achieve another ejaculation. it’s wrong. Male multi-orgasmic sex is sex that does not lose erection or sexual arousal during orgasms. Multiple orgasms only involve orgasms, not ejaculation. The only exception is when ejaculation is accompanied by the last orgasm.
.
Before explaining further, it is not a bad idea to familiarize yourself with the technical process of the “sexual arousal cycle”.
1. Stimulation stage
· Artery
· Erection
Increased heart rate
Relative lifting of the testicle and increase in size
Tightening of the nipples
2. Stable stage
Enlargement of the head of the penis and testicles
Complete lifting of the testicle
· Purple head of the penis
· Secretion of Cooper’s glands
Breathing
3. Orgasm stage (consists of liquid discharge and ejaculation)
liquid excretion
· Sperm and fluids are released from the efferent vein, seminal vesicles and prostate gland and collect at the bottom of the urethra near the prostate.
· Muscle tension just before release of pressure and tension
Increased heart rate and breathing
Necessity of ejaculation: Awareness of impending ejaculation
ejaculation
The sphincter muscle closes tightly.
· Rhythmic contractions of the prostate, mesenteric and penile muscles and the release of semen.
Partial dimness of consciousness
4. The analysis stage
Loss of stimulation
Sleeping of the penis and shrinking of the testicle skin
Return of muscle tension
Lowering heart rate and blood pressure
Multiple orgasms versus orgasms with ejaculation
Both types of orgasms start the same: from stimulation to a point close to ejaculation. At this point, the man experiences a series of genital contractions that last 3 to 5 seconds. These contractions are called pelvic orgasms, which first bring a feeling of vibration or partial release of pressure. When this point is fully recognized and controlled, these feelings can be made more and more intense.
When one reaches this point, the goal is not to achieve ejaculation, but to reduce the stimulation, just enough to control the level of stimulation. You can control the level of stimulation well by squeezing the pelvic muscles.
In the figure below, the stable stage is shown as the highest state of arousal, which, if the arousal is allowed to continue, will eventually lead to orgasm.
.
Notice the difference between the two graphs. In a normal single orgasm accompanied by ejaculation, the stable phase passes quickly, the orgasm subsides and ejaculation occurs. In a sex with multiple orgasms, the stable phase remains after the first orgasm and subsequent orgasms. Consecutive orgasms are usually slightly stronger than the previous orgasm until the man decides to ejaculate in the last orgasm. Ejaculation is completely selective. Even after a few orgasms, a person can decide not to ejaculate at all, in which case the arousal subsides after about an hour, unlike ejaculation, where sexual arousal subsides suddenly and quickly.
How is multiple orgasm possible?
The “reaction cycle” of men and women is almost the same. The minor difference between them is male ejaculation. Women who have multiple orgasms are able to have successive orgasms if the stimulation decreases for a short time after their first orgasm, because they do not ejaculate.
Ejaculation initiates the period of unresponsiveness in men. During this time, most men cannot be aroused again due to the loss of sexual tension, and the penis becomes sensitive to any touch. Since women are not biologically able to ejaculate, they do not have this characteristic and can have multiple orgasms much easier than men.
The first step in understanding how men can have multiple orgasms is to understand that orgasm and ejaculation are two completely separate and distinct events. Most men have always experienced orgasm and ejaculation at the same time, so they are unable to tell the difference.
.
The second step is to be able to distinguish between orgasm and ejaculation.
The ability to distinguish between the two includes the pelvic muscle. This is the same muscle that stops the flow of urine halfway through. If it is difficult for you to hold the flow of urine, it means that your pelvic muscle is weak. In this case, you need to work on making it stronger so that you can have multiple orgasms. When you squeeze and contract your pelvic floor muscles, you should feel everything deep in your pelvis being pulled up.
Breathing exercises
Sit on a comfortable chair and relax your shoulders.
Put your hands on your stomach just below the navel.
Breathe deeply into the lungs. Take a deep breath through your nose so that your stomach inflates.
· Exhale completely so that the belly is attached to the spine again. You will feel your pelvis and penis being pulled up.
Repeat this movement 9 to 36 times.
Prepare yourself
.
The ability to have multiple orgasms for a man is a remarkable ability, but it requires a lot of preparation. As mentioned before, one of the first steps is to know the pelvic muscles. To get to know it, you have to learn how to control it properly. Some of this control is acquired over time and with experience, but most of it must be acquired through reinforcement through continuous practice. You can do these exercises anywhere without anyone noticing.
Practice
.
Sit comfortably and start having sex with your partner as usual.
· Stop right where you are close to your ejaculation. Contract and hold your pelvic muscle and count to 10.
Then relax and rest for a few minutes.
· Start having sex again and this time get a little closer to the point of ejaculation and contract your pelvic muscle again.
Continue the relationship again and pay special attention to your sexual arousal and feelings. The key here is to understand more about your sexual response so that you can more easily control it.
Stop just before ejaculation
.
Continue having sex again, except this time go all the way to ejaculation. Just before orgasm you will feel several contractions that indicate the beginning of ejaculation at the base of your penis or even deeper in your pelvis. When these contractions start or just before they start, stop the stimulation and contract the pelvic muscle tightly. You will probably feel like you are about to ejaculate, but you should stop it. Proper tightening and contraction of the pelvic floor muscle keeps ejaculation.
A small amount of semen is released, but not with the pressure you experience in single orgasms. If you manage to stop ejaculating after your orgasm, start masturbating again. Your arousal should be very high and you should be able to keep it up for a short time before reaching another orgasm.
If you couldn’t stop ejaculating the first time, your pelvic muscle is probably not strong enough or you didn’t contract it at the right time. If you start to contract it late, ejaculation contractions have already started and it is impossible to stop it. With more practice, you will get the timing.
.
The role of the sexual partner
There are many techniques to increase your success in multiple orgasms. The best possible technique is to practice it with a partner of the opposite sex. If you can succeed in this task, you can bring both yourself and your sexual partner much more pleasure.
.
Overcome problems
Undoubtedly, the biggest obstacle most men experience in multiple orgasms is the inability to contract the pelvic floor muscles during orgasm to stop ejaculation. You may feel some contractions, but you should not stop contracting at this point because even if you succeed in stopping the ejaculatory contractions, you will still feel a few contractions of that type. If you succeed, the contractions will stop before you ejaculate and you should be able to resume your stimulation without the sensation going away.
.
Another problem is the inability to distinguish between the beginning and the end of the boundaries of the stable stages, orgasm and ejaculation. If you can’t tell the difference between an orgasm and an ejaculation, which is the key to experiencing multiple orgasms, it’s only a coincidence if you succeed.
Some men try to arouse themselves very quickly and intensely, but this is not a good way to know their level of sexual awareness. If you try to do the arousal more slowly, you can distinguish the border between arousal, the stable phase, and orgasm much more easily. With this method, you will know much better when to contract your pelvic muscles, when to stop stimulation, and when to relax your pelvic muscles and start stimulation again to experience another orgasm.
.
Pelvic pressure after stimulation
Pressure in the pelvic area is a natural result of increased blood flow in the genital area. If the amount of this pressure is unbearable, you can slowly reduce it by deep breathing, lifting the lower body and massaging the testicles. This causes the energy of the testicle to spread to other parts of the body. You can also sleep on your back for 5 to 10 minutes.
.
Other benefits
By learning how to have multiple orgasms, you can also solve other sexual problems such as premature ejaculation. With this method, you can not only increase your sex time, but your stress and anxiety will also decrease and you can focus more on satisfying yourself and your sexual partner.
Age
Many of you may ask whether age can have an effect on the success or failure of this technique. The success of all men in this technique is not the same because their sexual activity and their awareness of their level of sexual awareness are not the same.
If you have no problem reaching single orgasms either alone or with your partner, learning to have multiple orgasms just requires patience, determination and effort. But if you have problems in having single orgasms, you will face more problems and issues in multiple orgasms. For this reason, if you feel that you have serious problems in your sexual relations, be sure to discuss it with a specialist doctor.
old thoughts
The issue of multiple orgasm is not a new idea. Ancient Chinese philosophers knew it thousands of years ago. Many mysteries of sex still remain unknown. Despite the fact that during the forties and fifties many researchers in the field of sexual issues in the West confirmed the ability of men to have multiple orgasms. But even in this age, the level of sexual ignorance, wrong guidance and sexual confusion can be seen in abundance.
last line
The bottom line is that your ability to have multiple orgasms depends on your general sexual awareness and your ability to control your pelvic muscles. It is worth noting that you cannot acquire this ability overnight. Using the material mentioned in this article, you should probably realize that it can take weeks or even months to be successful in this field. The result you get depends on your effort and will.
